Picture a place you walk into where everyone you make eye contact with is friendly and welcoming. A place where nobody is judging you, and starting a conversation is as easy as saying “Hi”. A place where you can be yourself and interact with other similar people. A place where being curious and asking questions is encouraged. This is only way I can think of summing up the night I had.
The night starts off waiting in line which already is something I hate doing. But this night it was different, standing in line meant I got to meet friendly and interesting people from all walks of life. Interesting because we discussed our different fetishes and experiences within the community. When I say community, I mean people who live an alternative lifestyle. One of the people in that line was a gentleman who was partially blind and had a support cane. Hands down he takes the cake for the most interesting person I met.
Walking into the club for me is equivalent to a kid walking into the Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory. My eyes were peeled wide open and my curiosity was on level 1000. The main floor of the club had The Players showing their talents in a scene. In this milieu “Players” are the people who practice BDSM in a scene. A scene is a time when two or more people engage in BDSM and/or power exchange; it may or may not involve sexual activity. All of this is done with consent.
On this floor I got to see different scenes of humiliation, games using whips, paddles, bondage, gagging, electrical play and more. In observing the scenes, I witnessed many Tops (person performing the action) takes great care of the bottom. This was done through constant communication and paying attention to their body language. In one instance as a girl was getting flogged, 10 minutes into it her body began to tremble and the seasoned Top ended things immediately. He sat her down, got her a water bottle and towel and began her After Care. After Care is when the Top utilizes various pampering techniques on the Bottom to provide comfort after an intense experience. I was totally impressed by their interaction as I later found out the two have met for the first time that night.
The second floor is where the fun happens. I can only describe the upstairs in two words Pleasure & Happiness. Every corner of the room is filled with people having sex. This was not the porno type of sex, it was different, the whole room was filled with an energy as if each person’s sole purpose was to seek, give, and explore all degrees of pleasure.
When it comes to attire I got see some really sexy outfits, from people dressed in leather, latex, vinyl, and other outfits. I will say the best thing I seen all night was the blind gentleman walking around the club and interacting while buck naked. This made my night because here was a guy with an obvious disability and everyone treated him like a normal human being (which he is). I must say that did warm my heart.
If you are looking to attend your first Fetish club I recommend 2 sites. One being Google of course Just type “[your city] Fetish Club”. The second would be to sign up to FetLife. The best way I can describe Fet Life is it’s Facebook for Freaks (sounds better than saying alternative lifestyle).
